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Thursday, November 29, 2007

Mak - Part 2

Pagi 09/11/07, aku dapat call dari angah.........
Mak masuk hopsital lagi... memang sebelum ni kami nampak muka mak bengkak tapi tak la teruk sangat, kali ni muka & bibir sebelah kanan mak bengkak lagi teruk dari yang sebelum ni, sampai mata pun tertutup. Mak kena tahan kat wad kelas 1 unit onkologi & radioterpi HKL.


Lepas 1 minggu, doktor kata mungkin kimo yang mak ambik tak sesuai dengan dia. Kimo tu berdasarkan rekod mak yang lama masa lepas dia operation 10 tahun dulu. Dah 2 X mak ambik kimo tu, sekali setiap 3 minggu, so doktor decide nak tukar kimo jenis lain tapi kena rawat bengkak muka mak dulu. Kimo ni ader banyak jenis, klu tak silap dalam 4-5 jenis la, ade yang dalam bentuk cecair & ader yang dalam bentuk pil. Selang 3-4 hari, bengkak muka mak pun susut, mak di bagi kimo yang baru., tapi masih dalam bentuk cecair. Bengkak muka mak datang balik - PELIK! Kami pun hairan naper dah tukar ubat pun mak masih cam tu..???

Benjol keras sekeliling leher & telinga mak makin ketara. Mak rasa makin tak selesa sebab sakit & tegang kat bahagian leher & kepala.



Yang paling buat kami tension bila kami cuba dapatkan penjelasan dari doktor tapi nothing! Ingatkan bila duduk bawah pengawasan Doktor Pakar terjamin lah rawatan nya tapi.... doktor pakar terlampau sibuk sampaikan seminggu sekali je baru datang lawat mak. Yang lain tu sama ada doktor On Call @ assistant dia je yg follow-up, itu pun x boleh nk bagi keputusan yang tepat. Kesian mak, hari2 kena ambik darah, masuk drip air & antibiotik. Test test test, tapi xder result! - Itu lah HKL!!!!! Geram betul aku. Hari-hari mak rasa sakit kat bahagian yang bengkak tu, tido malam pun tak lena, sampaikan doktor kena bagi mak MORFIN untuk hilangkan rasa sakit tu.

Ayah pulak makin tension sebab tengok keadaan mak tak berubah. Sampaikan kesihatan dia sendiri pun terganggu sebab susah hati. Maner tak nyer, selama ni mak yang uruskan ayah, ayah terlampau bergantung pada mak dalam hal urusan diri dia, bila mak xder dia pun tak tentu hala la. Aktiviti harian kami adik-beradik pun bertambah, maner nak risau kan ayah, maner nak tengok mak.... setiap hari balik je dari kerja mesti pegi hospital tengok mak. Tau lah HKL tu nak cari parking jgn cerite... kadang2 tu sampai dah berbakul2 sumpah seranah keluar dari mulut, dah 3-4 round pusing keliling, baru la dapat parking. Menjelang dpt parking, masa melawat pun dah nak abis. Lepas balik dari Hospital pegi makan dulu dengan ayah, klu tak buat macam tu dia tak makan la jawab nye. Aku pulak terpaksa korban kan anak2 aku. Bila sampai rumah dah lewat malam, Budak2 pun dah nak tido, ari sabtu ahad pun macam tu jugak, masa aku lebih banyak dekat hospital dari dengan dia orang. Rumah aku jgn cakap la mcm Tongkang Pecah, berminggu tak kemas. Kain baju dah macam kedai dobi, tapi demi mak, aku tak kisah. Last2 aku upah org utk kemas kan rumah aku - abis cerita.

Dah 14 hari mak kat hospital, muka mak masih ada bengkak walau pun x teruk sangat. Akhirnya doktor kata, Kimo pertama & kedua tu tak sesuai dengan mak, maksudnya ubat tu terlampau kuat & badan mak tak boleh tahan. Muka mak bengkak sebab pengaliran cecair dalam badan bahagian muka mak lambat akibat dari benjol keras yang kat leher tu = Water retention. Kata doktor lagi sepatutnya bila masuk kimo, sel kanser tu pecah dan hilang dari dalam, tapi disebabkan ubat tu terlampau kuat dia buat sel kanser tu jadi makin keras. Contoh paling senang yang aku boleh bagi kat sini... macam kita rebus telur la... klu makin lama direbus makin keras/kenyal la telur tu kan... So, 3 sesi kimo yang tak berjaya & sia-sia.

Alternative ketiga ialah bagi mak kimo jenis pil - XELODA. Kimo ni lebih ringan sikit dari yg cecair. Kata doktor mengikut pengalaman dia org pada pesakit lain, bila kimo jenis cecair x berjaya, kimo ni selalunya tak ada masaalah @ komplikasi. Tapi caranya, klu dulu mak kena pegi hospital & ubat dimasukkan macam drip, yang ni pulak mak kena makan 2 biji setiap hari selama 3 minggu berturut-turut.

Lepas 19 hari, mak pun dah boleh kluar dari hospital. Lega rasanya....... Sekarang ni nak tengok pulak macam mana mak bila makan XELODA nanti. Harap-harap sel kanser tu berkurangan la. AMIN.
posted by Xerra Joe at 11:39 PM 0 comments

Sunday, November 11, 2007

I'll Bet U'll Laugh

Joke 1

Sally is at home when she hears someone knock at the door. She goes to the door and opens it to see a man standing there. He asks the lady 'Do you have a vagina'. Shocked she slams the door in disgust.

The next morning she hears a knock at the door and it is the same man and he asks the same question of the woman 'Do you have a vagina'. She slams the door again.


Later that night when her husband gets home she tells him what has happened for the last two days. The husband tells the wife in a loving and concerned voice 'Honey I am taking tomorrow off to be home just in case this guy shows up again'.

The next morning they hear a knock at the door and both run for the door. The husband says to the wife in a whispered voice 'Honey, I'm going to hide behind the door and listen and if it is the same guy I want you to answer yes to the question because I want to see where he is going with it'. She nods yes to her husband and opens the door.

Sure enough the same fellow is standing there and asks the same question. Do you have vagina?'. 'Yes' she says. The man replies..'Good! Would you mind telling your husband to leave my wife's alone and start using yours!?'


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Joke 2

An old man was sitting on a bench at the mall. A teenager sat down next to him. He had spiked hair that was red, orange, yellow, green, blue & violet. The old man stared. Whenever the teen looked, the old man was staring.

Finally, the teenager said sarcastically : "What's the matter, old boy, never done anything wild in your life?"

Without missing a beat the old man replied :"Got drunk once and had sex with a peacock. Just wondering if you were my son."

A GOOD ONE.......

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Joke 3

There was a Chinese lady married to an English gentleman and they lived in London . The poor lady was not very proficient in English, but managed somehow to communicate with her husband. The real problem arose whenever she had to shop for groceries.

One day, she went to the butcher and wanted to buy pork legs. She didn't know how to put forward her request, and in desperation, lifted up her skirt to show her thighs. The butcher got the message and the lady went home with pork legs.

The next day, she needed to get chicken breasts. Again, she didn't know how to say, and so she unbuttoned her blouse to show the butcher her breast. The lady got what she wanted.

The third day, the poor lady needed to buy sausages. She brought her husband to the store.......... so what did she do????


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What are you thinking?

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The husband is English lah.....what are you thinking ?????? HellOOOooooooOOOooo, her husband speaks English!!
posted by Xerra Joe at 3:56 PM 0 comments